Sex education 20 Battle of ideas still exist sex younger age trend for the first

2013, dang sex science author "Queen C-cup" a night red again network Shi, engaged in sex education, and sex psychological Advisory, and sex scientific research of professional institutions "new gold game work room" official named, domestic of sex education network platform "green apricot" are preparatory online, and is committed to with Internet help parents on children for sex education of "guardian innocence" project group, is began from school community to social enterprise transformation.

That same year, editor in Chief of the sex education lesson plan library scholar Fang to Shandong province and free training in sex education for high school teachers, persons claiming to be the parents of students accused of "incitement" and threatened to "throwing shit".

Survey shows that in recent years, Chinese young people clear trend of low age of first sex, Internet sex education hot hits. Today, society's attitude to sex education, a certain degree within a certain range remains in the phase of the battle of ideas, for primary and secondary schools in most cities of China, and Deputy exists only in a textbook on sex education to no more than one section of content.

Sexologists Hon Vincent Fang Kang

Sex education effect of 20 years of worrying

"We who grew up a little enlightenment, most of the sources of knowledge are little yellow book, erotic videos, is there anything that the family doctor magazine. "Qing XING network, one of the heads of 27 years old Coco said.

Within the education system in China, sex education has a more subtle name: "adolescent". As early as in 1988, the former State Education Commission and the State family planning Commission jointly released the notice on adolescent education at secondary school, sex education was formally incorporated into the content of secondary education in China.

In December 2001, the State Council promulgated the People's Republic of China on population and family planning law, which States: "should be among the students of the school in order to meet the characteristics of a proper way to education, there are plans to carry out health education, adolescence education or health education. "At this point, the youth access to sex education and school education obligations should, is guaranteed in law.

However, 2011 according to a survey of middle school students in Chongqing, known knowledge of high school students surveyed, 62.7% comes from the media (including Internet, film and television, extracurricular books), only 22% of respondents knowledge from courses or teachers, insufficient knowledge by parents inform people about sex 13%. In addition, in 2009 according to a Beijing more than a thousand college students in six tests, the overall accuracy of college students ' sexual knowledge is only 34.5%.

Institute of sociology, Renmin University in 2010, random sample of the national population aged 14-17, which show: 78% of the young people surveyed are still in "masturbation is a Vice" prejudice under the oppression of; in knowledge of contraception, to test "men and women if only one life, so the women's chances of getting pregnant is very small. You had this to say, do you "agree with the error of the boys surveyed, only one-fourth, and the girls even to one-fifth.

Established by law for ten years, sex education began 20 years later, the practical implementation and effect of Chinese education is still worrying.

"Actually, we want to refer to is the integration of sex education into compulsory education, but so far is still relatively slim. "Wuxi protection technology, project manager Zhao Xiuwen Doug said. The tech company was formerly Southern Yangtze University students association "protect heart" project group, has now registered as social enterprises, NGO, business, parent and child-oriented training courses.

According to Zhao Xiuwen said, sex education in China, relying mainly on student associations, social organizations and foundations and other civil society organizations.

As for why mainstream education channel cannot assume the corresponding responsibility, he gave three reasons: first, the examination-oriented education is the mainstream and, secondly, teachers and parents are on a very sensitive topic; third, the State has no detailed plan.

Countries have not tried. As early as 2008 published by the Ministry of health education in primary and secondary schools syllabus, it explicitly requested: primary school student in grade one or two, should have basic knowledge of life breeding, growth, knowing that "where I come from". In 2011, a book called the book of growth expectation, plan to put into use in Beijing primary school education.

The book is a "mode of Beijing's primary and middle school education was first built" the research results of the project, a project commissioned by the Beijing Municipal Commission of education, and sex education sex education and research center of capital Normal University and Beijing Association assume. But, because we have introduced the concept of sexual intercourse, and is equipped with a picture, the book is considered by parents and teachers, even dismissed it as "yellow comics."

Beijing Municipal Education Commission under the pressure of public opinion to clarify, this is not a sex education textbook, the Beijing municipal educational administrative departments at all levels for the time being there is no sex education textbooks related projects and the preparation of plans, pilot projects and extension programmes.

Sexologists Fang speaks bluntly: "prevalent among some of the public mood, and sensitive to children's education. Sensitive and child-sensitive, two together, shaking, trembling. Such sentiments make educators can't do, make the Government departments dare not do, making parents afraid to do, this is the (sex education) major resistance. "

According to Durex global survey in 2005, the global 98% of respondents who think that teenagers should begin from the age of 16 or more formal sex education, while in mainland China, this ratio is only 13%. In addition, only 0.1% of the Chinese respondents claimed at the age of 10 or more trained early sex education, while the global average was 8% per cent.

"Do you see" CEO Chai Ke

"The elephant in the room"

Sex education may lack curiosity and confusion about sex is the only way to grow.

Attention to women's health mobile apps APP ": see" CEO of Chai Ke mentioned in an article, a 13 year old girl first confused, panicked, but never went back to parents and teachers, and opted for an anonymous network software for help. Chai Ke as a girl father sighs, as he later did "great aunt Bible" of the 400 in the first place.

Qing XING in feel, the founder wrote: "physical and sexual, young people can have so much confusion and anxiety. Small to think private organs and others do not like big unintended pregnancy overwhelmed, every issue makes me feel anxiety over the screen. "

Qing XING network core fan group is young people aged 18-25. Between the minors and between married persons, their faces no longer panic at menarche or "where I come from" question, but more for the body and sexuality, sexual confusion.

Interaction in the background, Coco has received many questions about contraception, including figure legends in the market. Many fans filled with worry asked: coitus interruptus, or safe, or even done bring the Cola to wash the private parts ... ... Can you be pregnant?

Coco is overwhelming, she attributed the lack of sex education in early years, and the situation in China as "the elephant in the room": everyone pretending not to see, but is essentially a huge, can't really ignore.

In January 2015, social survey research center, Peking University Institute of Baihe dating 2015 released investigation report of Chinese love and marriage status, "after 95" respondents, sex for the first time with an average age of less than 18 years old, to 17.71. "Do you see" 2016 issued the white paper on Chinese women's physical health, also known as: 70% women have sex before marriage, and sex of younger age trend is clearly for the first time.

"People have such requirements. Like a person to drink water, you don't give him clean water, he must drink dirty water. What is the clean water? Is public. Everyone participating in this discussion, is clean, open, and if you worry, you join the discussion. "" Bitch Jam FM "host bird said. "Bitch Jam FM" is an autonomous private radio advocates female independence, lust, love, sex, on relationships.

So philosophy, catch up with the rapid development of the Internet era, almost no progress for 20 years in the blink is far behind the traditional educational channels. "Bitch Jam FM" since December 1, 2015 was launched, in five months, more than 3.7 million times on demand, fans are "after the", "95".

Battle of ideas

The age of the Internet, when "sex" information at your fingertips when discussing "whether to talk about sex" itself, it is pointless.

Meanwhile, spread obscene information in person, someone who is committed to the dissemination of scientific knowledge, against speaking openly about people who are powerful under the combined effect of the Internet, with the speed and degree of exposure to public view as never before.

Huge amounts of complex information, how receivers need a sieve, became the focus of debate.

Vincent Fang advocates "empowering education" idea that everyone responsible to determine their own affairs relating to the body's ability and right. He said, "does not have in the absence of sex education in the past, in the absence of sex education on the rights situation was denied. So we must increase empowerment, training ' human rights ' and the values of gender equality. "

Science writer "Queen C-cup"

Science writer "Queen C-cup" agrees. She admits that adolescence is not her audience, she did not sex education, but adult-oriented science. But, "because we have no sex education, so now the science is kind of education, everyone from here to get lacking knowledge, correct wrong ideas. "

She writes in a microblog: "come on, look at the Blackboard and repeat after me: I was my own for the first time, not for men. My times are my own and not of any one partner. "

In an interview, "Queen C-cup" added: "a woman had had sexual experience is inferior, boyfriend or husband suddenly has the right to judge her, she suddenly needs to ask other people for forgiveness. This physical body, elevated concept of women of their right to dispose of the body, I am against it. "She shares the view that, as a big country, China has no reason not to do sex education, but if you're" chastity ", that would rather not.

It ran counter to traditional mainstream education.

In 2010, in television, the Shanghai Municipal People's Congress Bai Wanqing, advise unmarried young women, self-esteem, and stressed: "chastity is a girl for her most valuable dowry." In 2012, at the age of 38 female master tushiyou create, Wuhan University promotes chastity before marriage site and launch is "Virgin" medical examination report.

Meanwhile, sex education has long been deemed sensitive by one of the main reasons is that worry that incorrectly can lead to sexual promiscuity. Vincent Fang and "Queen C-cup" sex education philosophy, directly hit the opponent's "gun".

According to Phoenix weekly reported, Fang in Shandong for sex education Shi, had has claiming to be is "children in Shandong reading of middle school students mother" of plum, in network Shang published to middle school students parents of proposal and to party of open letter, denounced party just "to science, and education for name, line salacious Kinky of real, its poison, and destroyed next generation of ambitions has becomes".

"Sex education" to some extent a taboo subject. Zhao Xiu-wen said children sex education, now does best is painless promotions, "although I strongly feel that condom promotion will replace it with better." He particularly mentioned the media criticism, news to relate, becomes a sensitive topic, only in this way will continue sensitive.

"One has to face the problem, the problem can be solved. "Zhao Xiu-wen said.

Vincent Fang went further saying, mature and open attitudes about sex should be treated as anything else to talk about, rather than as a problem. "The most important thing is that we talk about sex and very calm, like eat, talk on the weather. "

In 2016, the group voice lessons he began the use of the letter in the form of lectures, and opened a personal micro-public, in addition to talking about sex education, also talk about intimacy and diversity.

At this point, "Queen C-cup" is already sitting on more than 800,000 fans, also published a book, the taste of the first bite of the Apple. Public hospital reform programme announced in

Qing XING network has been closed and re-opened, gathered a group of loyal fans. "The new Kinsey Studio" in the face of challenges, but two students ' science summer camp has also launched the first personal education MOOC courses.

NET exposure NDRC officials driving retrograde in XI an city of Yulin Shaanxi

Ma has been taken away by the forest Brigade of traffic police detachment in XI ' an. Friends drift in XI ' an image:

According to network news in the West, the night of April 26, friends broke the news that Yulin city development and Reform Commission official driving retrograde in XI ' an, and in the middle of the road walking in circles. Online photos show the official final control by the police. The morning of April 28, Xinhua learned from the Yulin city development and Reform Commission, MA Department of national development and Reform Commission projects concerned. Horse has been taken away by the forest Brigade of traffic police detachment in XI ' an.

Netizen "drift in XI ' an," Twitter said, 26th around 23 o'clock, a Shan KG**18 of the Mazda brand cars, near the village of XI ' an edge in the middle of the road circles and retrograde, retrograde eventually stopped in front of police car.

The Netizen said, involved drivers who claimed to be Office of major projects of development and Reform Commission Chief Ma County, Yulin city, and workers were issued. Displayed in the users publish pictures, man was overpowered by police cars on the car hood.

28th morning, Xinhua learned from the Yulin city development and Reform Commission, Office of the major projects of men concerned Department of national development and Reform Commission Chief Ma, its latest in a leave status. "We are also working on an in-depth understanding of network-related situations. "The Yulin city development and Reform Commission to monitor Ma Xiaofeng said.

It is understood that involved number plate for Shaanxi KG**18 Mazda sedan, and Ma all. Situations not handling the car is illegal.

Reporters learned from the forest City Public Security Bureau branch in XI ' an, MA has been referred to the police last night forest Brigade away vehicles involved were temporarily by traffic Police Department.

At present, the incident is still under further investigation. 9 year old boy living in Changchun kindergarten

Xian train 30 people breathing difficulties nausea vomiting due to inhalation

According to China daily news of xianyang, yesterday afternoon, Xian XI Ping on a railway train to Xian K8232, bin, 30 passengers made a sudden difficulty breathing, nausea and vomiting, was taken to hospital for medical treatment where he was initially diagnosed with physical discomfort caused by coal dust inhalation.

Passengers on the platform who face covered with soot.

Seating is full of soot on a passenger with asthma have committed

25th at 12 o'clock, Ms. Han bin from the train station via the K8232 back to XI ' an, originally a short 2-hour drive, but because soot on the train, was forced to stop at night.

"We boarded, found on train seats are ash, we didn't care, and wiped. Didn't expect train opened, soot is blown up, choking man can't breathe. After a while, we all like from coal mines to crawl out of. "Han said that at about 1 o'clock in the afternoon, the train reached Yongshou, can't stand ash passengers have to get off.

"Nose, eyelashes, hair is dark gray, asthma has made some passengers. "Han says," good morning, hundreds of passengers, people had to get off. "Yesterday at 19 o'clock, Korean ladies and some passengers still stranded in Yongshou, some passengers were sent to hospital for a check into the PFA.

Inside the train.

View of 30 passengers were hospitalized and 7 including 3 children

Yongshou County party Committee propaganda Department said one staff, some passengers after breathing difficulties, the conductor called the 120 emergency phone, train after stopping in Yongshou station, Yongshou organize relevant personnel to help. Some much-needed people were on the train home.

Yesterday afternoon, the China business news reporter from Yongshou county authorities learned that yesterday's 13:20, Xian K8232 breathing difficulties to some of the passengers on the train, symptoms such as nausea and vomiting, Yongshou County, the County Government launched emergency plans, organization satellite meter, food and medicine, safety, public security and other relevant departments carried out emergency treatment, 16:20 as of yesterday, a total of 30 passengers were hospitalized. On checking, 30 admitted patients, nationals, bin 24, Gansu province, shangluo nationals 3, nationals 1 people, changwu nationality 1, Xian JI 1, following a preliminary diagnosis of coal dust inhalation causes physical discomfort, the cause of the accident is under further investigation and verification. As of 17:26 P.M., 23 people had been discharged from hospital, 7 3 children of those who are still holding.

Bin to Xian trains due to health issue complaint

Passengers standing on the platform.

Afterwards, Chinese reporters learned from the Xian railway Bureau, April 25, 12:30, bin K8232 passenger train runs on the way to XI ' an, due to ash dust intrusion of forward freight train carriages, some travellers do not apply. Xian railway Bureau to take prompt measures in front of the train station, Yongshou station, will be presented to hospital visitors sent to hospital for treatment. Meanwhile, rent buses and replace mode at the end of the coach, the other passengers safely to their destination. Xian railway Bureau of the ill passengers and apologize for the inconvenience caused to the passenger train.

It is understood that on April 10 last year, XI (XI an) (Pingliang) Xian-Bin section of the railway was formally opened, the first railway passenger car, ending the Xian to liquan, Gan, Yongshou, bin, etc, no source for the history of railway passenger car. 61 year old Sichuan migrant workers oral administration

However, the Chinese business news Internet search found that the route opened, health caused passengers unhappy with many of its vehicles. Last July, the China business daily reported the bin from the xianyang to Xian for short term on the K8230 train, passengers have reflected, the car is full of soot, clean with hygiene wipe paper cannot, the passengers could not be seated, many people were standing there. In this regard, the Xian railway Bureau had explained that short-term condition, running Windows is generally open, opposite the tunnel when they encounter trucks over piston effect is produced, the impact of a massive coal ash into the compartment.

Bus carrying 34 Yunnan Thailand tourists due to scratching in Xishuangbanna

24th 9:10 A.M., a bus carrying 38 occupants of the bus in the town of mengla County, Mill Road in menglun territory when overtaking and scratch a van rollover, 1 killed 4 people were injured.

It is understood that the Jinghong road auto accident vehicles leased a nuclear big bus carrying 47 people, was carrying 34 people at Thailand tourists, 3 Chinese tour guide and 1 driver. According to team travel information display: 34 Thailand Tourism team of tourists on April 20 by Mohan port entry to the Xishuangbanna tourism, by any of the Xishuangbanna international travel service Ltd-head of tourism reception arrangements.

On the morning bus driven by Chen, starting from Jinghong small grinding high-grade Highway to Mohan, at about 9:10 from the menglun road while overtaking near the botanical gardens, and the moving truck after scraping into the lane, with Gables and a fence outside the Road West of the road after the collision, rollover to the road outside the East side of the road. Friendship boats comic author after 85 of nerd

Accident caused Thailand nationality the deceased male, born in 1954, 3 name 4 injured tourists and one driver Chen. Current rehabilitation treatment is in progress.

Broke into the University for the training of school personnel and wounding

Women's soccer school manager Yue Mou (male) will be packed into a concussion. Pictures from the Internet

The Changping campus of CUPL school women's soccer players on the football field being battered by social workers about the slight concussion on April 22, the surging News (www.thepaper.CN) from China University confirmed that currently the school is working with the departments of public security, urged its law as soon as possible to investigate the matter. Changping Public Security Bureau said police involved in the investigation.

China University claiming to present students who witnessed the incident to the news reflected the surging, April 20 at 19 o'clock, female football team during football training in schools, with more than 10 members of the outside dispute and physical conflict, women's soccer school manager Yue Mou (male) will be packed into a concussion.

According to their reasoning, when school girls ' team rented a school football field training site, leased to 20th at 18 o'clock until 20 o'clock. During the training, playing more than 10 men out of school personnel to enter the site, women's football players stepped forward to explain the situation, and want them to leave the training ground, to play football has not been rented premises. Apart from outside the training ground was leased at that time, on the Court there is a large area for outside use. Interlocutors do not scatter, verbally abusive, pushing women's football team, the physical contact is more intense on both sides. Female soccer team manager Yue Mou upon seeing this, stepped forward to stop him, been beaten by more than 10 people outside the campus security to Yue MOU in a timely manner to the hospital for treatment, doctors diagnosed a concussion.

Hospital of Yue's diagnosis

At present, "more than 10 people outside the beaten Yue MOU" was yet to be confirmed.

On April 21, the China University soccer associations in their public letter posted on the details of the event: April 20, around 19 o'clock training school women's soccer players on the football field in the southeast corner and part of the external personnel (all male) spat. Women's soccer team has not driven these lay people left the field, but these outside agents to make room they occupy a small portion of the site for training, but outside personnel to "all Chinese schools to the University which we the taxpayers paid for" grounds, refused to give up some ground, women football players ' abusive, pushing. Women's soccer manager Straus Yue Mou, seeing the front of school personnel, anti-being pushed out and 1 of them was wearing a Netherlands Orange men with fists hit the brow horns. Subsequently, several other school staff also came up the use of force. Chengchi University Football Association says, currently has three staff involved in the incident outside has been sent to the songyuan police station for investigation. Hotel yellow card survey involved chaos why difficult

The same day, CUPL announced through the official micro-blog on the event of note: community injury to school students, have been admitted for treatment. School is in active communication with public security departments, and urged public security departments investigation according to law and make a decision on the matter as soon as possible, and will further improve school safety and security rules and regulations to prevent and eliminate all kinds of safety concerns in a timely manner.

A woman journalist who died due to domestic violence in Inner Mongolia who hoped

Journalist Hongmei living pictures.

In hangjin banner, Ordos city, Inner Mongolia radio and television reporter Hong Mei's desk of the Office building, a paper calendar always stay on April 5.

The table, visible traces of her former Office: press release drafts on which pages and some manuscript material, a painting long eyelashes piggy's glasses, and there's no drinking water.

Drawer, put her 13 year old son's homework, a blue and white patterned card, a few thick stack of press releases, and 8 honors: 2008 was named the whole flag outstanding journalists; several times in a row was awarded outreach Awards 2013 was named the advanced women's worker. A businessman said the bribery involved in Gansu

Hong Mei said, her slender fingers to change articles can clearly remember the scene, but she can't write anymore.

The afternoon of April 6, Hong Mei died due to being domestic violence at home. Hangjin County Public Security Bureau criminal investigation Brigade, said Hong Mei's husband Jin Zhu was detained for suspected intentional injury, as of April 20, the case is still under further investigation.

19th, FMC Chairman Naren flowers visit Red families in Erdos city, offered to help families of Red Plum urging case handling processes, and to seek legal assistance.

Autopsy found ribs broken 7

Red the last app.

On April 5 after work, red plum and talk to some friends for dinner, 8 o'clock back home, husband Jin Zhu pulled her into the House of the private car, violence continued for 50 minutes.

"He pulled her mother's hair and the glass hit. "Lesser 13 year old son (not his real name) has seen it all, and told aunt of plum blossom in the next day.

Plum speculated that may be red plum home late, causing Jin Zhu complaints.

Lesser, plum says, the 5th Golden column after the violence in the car on the red, and dragged her into the House, kept on the 6th at 5 in the morning.

6th, hangjin County work safety supervision Bureau Director Liu received a golden column leave the phone, say "something".

A little past 8, red plum plum came to sister's House, told plum evening encounter, plum blossom through the Foundation, can discern the little sister on the nose was bruised.

"She's been clutching the morning of 6th chest discomfort, I help her to leave an organization. "Sister of plum blossom in hangjinqi working radio, film and television center, served as News Director of Chinese, little sister Hongmei was Vice Director.

Plum wants to stay his sister that eating at home. Red Plum worried about his elderly parents to see their bruised nose hurt, rejected sister, gone back to their home.

But this time, goodbye, was dead.

A little after 2 o'clock in the afternoon, Jin Zhu came to his house about 1 km "long macro" canteen. Wife recalls: "he used to buy liquor, that he sat next to the table in the canteen, drink half a bottle, around 4 o'clock, he bought a bottle of wine away. "

A little after 5 o'clock in the afternoon, the small school, mother had to pick him up. He runs home, alone, knocked at the door was locked from the inside. Lesser House is a small second floor some time, he climbed the stairs next to the fence, see Windows open on the second floor, heard dad calling my mother's name "Red Plum, red plum", but MOM did not respond.

Lesser witnessed domestic violence on several occasions. He was a bit scared, ran to her, with plum tells it all. Plum was wrong, riding a car battery with a lesser, 7 o'clock arrived at the Red House.

120 ambulance had downstairs. Yongmei ran into the door in a hurry, Jin Zhu walking around in panic, plum took the shoes start at the door knocked down golden column head, lesser approach to hit that Daddy with his fist.

Doctors are racing at this time lay in the bed of red currants.

But it's too late. "The pupils have spread. "The doctor said.

7th, plum's aunt whose confidential self-mailer participate in forensic autopsy. Dead red plum blossom lying on the cold iron bed Board, its confidential self-mailer saw red chest has two large round bruises ears large black, meat has been festering in the mouth: "forensic opened her scalp, said there is congestion, also. One, two or three, four or five, six or seven, the forensic her broken ribs. "

Until April 19, Hong Mei's family is still waiting for the autopsy report. Family hopes body red plum buried as soon as possible. Police investigators said to red plum family, because her injuries more forensic results may therefore have to wait 20 days to one month.

Little sister left, plum will give her every morning burning paper, "feel this is all a dream. "

Before complaining to friends "to be fun"

Red Plum parts certificates obtained.

April 1 is red 40 birthday, sister of plum blossom especially through micro credit Mongolian sing happy birthday song for her, red Mongolian replied, "thank you."

Hong Mei grew up in a family of intellectuals. Mother was the hangjin banner Mongolian primary school language teacher, his father was the Vice President of hangjinqi Mongolian secondary schools, parents never relax to red plum and intellectual education.

Later, Hong Mei hangjinqi was a female reporter from the radio, film and television service. She is 1.73-meter, and is the tallest multicompound radio reporter.

Was impressed by colleague Xiao Rong, is Red's passion for news. As long as there are interviews, young reporters who don't want to go, her noises picked up the machines went. Multicompound broadcasting business on the list, often can be seen Hung Mui's name.

Most members affectionately call her "red plum sister".

Red the day of the accident, shock, grief hangs over the multicompound radio news department. And Ms Liu Hongmei worked more than 10 years that day because of grief Taiqi: "they say red is gone, where I said, they said at the funeral home. I don't believe it, think she can come talk to me tomorrow. "

"She used to wash our feet and cooking. After getting married, Jin Zhu irrespective of the home, she had to take care of cerebral infarction's father-in-law. "Red plum mother choked, not talking.

Buying food, cooking, home size and household chores is to Plum someone move about in. Not far from Red Plum home market has a beam boss he knew Jin Zhu has more than 10 years: "all is Hong Mei and her mother to buy vegetables, cooked the dinner also sent to her father-in-law. Jin Zhu has never been whether lesser and Daddy every day drinking, playing mahjong is to drink. "

Red Plum had said to his colleagues brought, she was very tired, "almost like a pull two children. "

The night of the incident, Hong Mei during dinner last odd woman complained to a friend: "to be really boring and tired. "

Alcohol gambling husband

October 2015 Jin Zhu loafed on the job of writing the outcry.

Jin Zhu is 42 years old, in hangjin County work safety supervision Bureau.

Greengrocer's boss said Leung, Jin Zhu don't laughed a lot, loves playing mahjong, love to drink. But he has a bad wine, no one wants to drink with him: "the human heart is too small, drinking alcohol on swearing, not authentic. He always ' cheated ' cheating red currants. In March this year in my shop, got a call from Red Plum, asking where he was, he said he still did not return to the countryside. "

Red plum blossom friend Wei Lady bad impression of Jin Zhu, she said, Jin Zhu gambling is often lost, owe a debt, red plum she.

Red plum blossom two friends memories for more than 20 years, Jin Zhu "narrow-minded", suspect that red is cheating on him. And Red Plum Party, often received questions call from Jin Zhu. Later, fearing that bring trouble to Hong Mei, friends call her the party less and less.

In 2014, Hongmei studying elementary school held a gathering activity, a group of parents of students at a hotel party. Red plum blossom friend Wei said that Plum happy to drink some wine, parents to send her back home. Haven't entered, Jin Zhu fan Hongmei two ears. Forced parents and Red Plum delivered to her home.

Jin Zhu's performance is not satisfactory. Safety supervision Bureau Secretary Liu, Jin Zhu has been very strict in business, not serious about Jin Zhu at work carried out strict education, last year wanted to return back to his personnel reassigned.

Secretary Liu took a golden column, written in October 2015 outcry in neat handwriting recognition in his work appeared in late, leave early and not serious problems such as absenteeism, and determined to correct them. After that, Jin Zhu performance goes well.

MOM and son love, once said to her, "MOM, divorced"

Hong Mei and Jin Zhu are elementary school students, two people in love, and married in 2000. Red was also the mother of Jin Zhu elementary school teacher, said Jin Zhu performed well as a child, does not quite agree with the couple, but finally I respect her choice.

Each daughter was domestic violence, elderly pain in my heart. The first year of marriage, red is 5 times of domestic violence. In one case, Jin Zhu's father hugged his son and daughter-in-law escape. Red Plum 12 midnight fled home, holding my mother crying.

At that time, Hong Mei's parents suggest that they divorce. But red didn't want to, the old man still respect the idea of red plum.

In 2001, Hong Mei were pregnant, her husband's violence did not stop. That year, conceived in March of red because of domestic violence and abortion. Red Plum family lawyer to write a divorce complaint, referred to the Court, but the Court several times to call Jin Zhu, Jin Zhu did not appear. Over time, Hong Mei also wavered, married and not separated into this time.

Later the couple quarrel continues, Sarina with red 20 colleagues often see red bruise on his leg.

Wife's trial, there is no change to her husband's conscience.

The summer of 2013, plum returned to Jin Zhu chose a short sleeve, the Office said: "hot summer, Jin Zhu Mahjong can wear at night. "

However, in October of that year, Jin Zhu Drunken Fist waving evil to the sleeping wife. Hospital diagnostic red "occipital bone comminuted fracture", Hong Mei's father said, her head recessed egg, half a month in the hospital. During hospitalization, Jin Zhu has never visited red currants.

Son is lesser, 11 years old at that time, as distressed mother, unexpectedly and Hong Mei said: "mum, divorced. "

Hong Mei's parents suggested the couple divorced again, red plum also made up my mind, himself quietly rented a House on the outside, the two men separated for almost a year. Until the end of 2014, Jin Zhu finding red plum home, on two old men kneel to kowtow to repent and said: "I'm over 40, age, my son would not talk to me anymore, I can't go on like this, I swear I will not hit the red plum. "

Red plum blossom once again relented, said she is willing to give Jin Zhu's last chance.

Colleagues feel brought Hong Mei has been in contradiction between love and hate. Red may have notched said: "if I leave a golden column, he'll drink yourself to death. "

"Until the child is older, he will be able to protect me"

Last winter, red plum about Googling odd ladies dinner.

Ms strange sense they may be in trouble, but did not elaborate on, but helpless to say one word: "I will one day die in the man's hand. "

This sentence is an odd Lady mistook a joke: "I said how could it be, when I gave her a golden column next time drink, alarm, go hide. "Red plum listen sighed.

Red's friends, colleagues and family advised her to divorce more than once. At first, the Red Plum worried about divorce bad for her.

Evaluation of her colleagues Ms Liu Hong Mei "to save face". She speculated that Red Plum as a reporter, may not want their family to be in hangjinqi this small talk.

Then have children, lesser red heart's biggest worry.

Ms strange memories, in recent years, only when talking with his son the lesser, Hongmei rare smile. Red Plum and she happily said son eat her shredded, fried meat, potato chips.

Late last year, the odd Lady advised Hong Mei divorced, red or not, she said, "hold on for four or five years, until the child grows up, he will protect his mother. "

For family, red plum and many more concerns. More than once she said to sister of plum blossom, worried about Jin Zhu killed his parents after divorce.

Until March 1 of the year of the coming into force of the people's Republic of China anti-domestic violence law, Hong Mei did not take up legal weapons to protect themselves.

"Red heart too good. "The greengrocer beam boss sadly.

A day before the accident, red plum update a circle of friends, she writes: "in a world of two people is always a badgering, a smile, a noisy, coaxed, if one always loses, not eloquence is not good enough, just didn't want to put the most hurtful words ... ... Bless all people in love, hold your hands and grow old with you. "

A picture of two white-haired old man, men give women wash the feet of women laughing.

Henan 4 drunk fell tableware conflict for public officials the restaurant owner

Nanzhao County Henan 4 national public officers drink and restaurant owners about the deaths caused by the conflict, on April 18, informed the nanzhao County Committee Publicity Department confirmed that 4 people are under criminal detention by public security organs. Reported 4 broken after drinking utensils, with attendant quarrel, tussle, restaurant owner came forward to dissuade stop collapses, dies after scuffle.

Informed said, April 16, nanzhao agricultural Council staff Wu a, and four tree tree Xiang land resources by staff Chu a, and County Attorney staff Zhang a, and white Motte town judicial by staff Lu a carry family weekend out play, noon in four tree tree Xiang "Kowloon Lake farm Le" dinner, then and restaurant staff occurred conflict, raised takes, caused restaurant boss, and four tree tree Xiang peak an Cun Branch Secretary Lee a death.

According to the China business news reported, Lee is also the deceased, nanzhao County deputies someone broke the news that, after drinking and requires signing on behalf of the Government public funds for public officials being refused, the subsequent conflict. However the report did not officially confirm this statement.

According to the bulletin, 4 public officials broke after dinner drinking utensils, and the farm staff some quarrel, tussle, restaurant owner Lee appear discouraged after the suppression, physical confrontation, Lee collapses, dies. Why broken cutlery, wittingly or unwittingly, notification is not indicated.

Reported that nanzhao County Public Security Bureau received the alarm, quickly organized in sikeshu Township Police station, nanhe Dian police, rushed to the scene, control individuals involved according to law, and bring back public security agencies in the investigation. Shenzhen responded no power challenge road of

At present, the police is carrying out an autopsy to ascertain the cause of death, nanzhao County discipline Inspection Commission set up a group, start the accountability mechanisms, Stern disciplinary officers, the County Communist party set up rehabilitation groups, and handling the aftermath of the deceased.